markmorrisII:

yes. The 'oi' sentence, worked for me countless times. Better than just, erm, wonder if she likes me? just say, ERE!!! WE'RE GOIN OUT TOMMOROW NIGHT! or, something you may like... 'When I close my eyes I cant stop seeing your gorgeous smile, I cant stop smelling your perfect smell, be mine.. forever more' or somet like that, I seem to remember u thought romance had gone.

markmorrisII:

no this is a new thread, the other one dissapearing act. Never mind though, if thats what u want romance to be, then im out.

markmorrisII:

No its not harsh, I didnt mean anything by it, I just disagreed with something atroi said earlier, I wasnt having a go

Funtin':

Lovely sermon, JA... I wholeheartedly agre with every word you said there... as long as...

1. you have an element of trust between you,
2. you are totally happy with being 'you' &
3. he is happy with you being 'you'

... then there shouldn't be a thing you can't work out between the two of you.

JamiesAngel:

Funtin':

Lovely sermon, JA... I wholeheartedly agre with every word you said there... as long as...

1. you have an element of trust between you,
2. you are totally happy with being 'you' &
3. he is happy with you being 'you'

... then there shouldn't be a thing you can't work out between the two of you.

oh gosh!! not sure triff is ok with me being me, not a pretty site, i think he thought he was marrying someone else, who liked housework and was thoughtful

markmorrisII:

No its not harsh, I didnt mean anything by it, I just disagreed with something atroi said earlier, I wasnt having a go

JamiesAngel:

Funtin':

JamiesAngel:

ohhh        thanks peeps for your kind words, Funtin darlin what do you mean our age!!!!   im 19 inside, and 13 when around jamie  

I noticed that at Crathes...

Seriously, it's nice to hear I'm not the only one who is still in love after x-amount of years being with the same guy (& married to him).

oh gosh funtin, im ashamed of myself at crathes in one repect, just very glad i didnt say can i take you home i mean what would the kid think, well, he'd be wrong!! but oh my life, not sure i've behaved much better since, keeping quiet is my best quality

on the subject of love, this is my second marriage, the first one being some what a farse, but, i dont believe you fall out of love or stop fancing someone, not like (no offence) in the teenage sense, love is love, that person has to do something bad to make you feel you have to walk away, too many relationships are based on something flimsy like lust, and when theres problems, they cant work it out or dont want to, sometimes people need to not talk or kiss or whatever, it dont mean there gonna get divorced, it means they are not talking, etc, etc, not sure young people today realise its ok to be how you feel, when you love someone, you let them feel how they feel, as long as your not in any danger, its ok

sermon over

jazzo:

Hi Karen, believe me if there was something you'd be one of the first to know

Loved JA's story though -- sounds like triff should change his username to JamiesAngelsAngel

jazzo:

Hi Karen, believe me if there was something you'd be one of the first to know

Loved JA's story though -- sounds like triff should change his username to JamiesAngelsAngel

JamiesAngel:

jazzo:

Hi Karen, believe me if there was something you'd be one of the first to know

Loved JA's story though -- sounds like triff should change his username to JamiesAngelsAngel

thats really nice of you to say jazzo, but if triff was to see that, he would start to wonder why he is doing all the cooking this week i suppose i shouldnt take him for granted so much, hehehehehe

*Karen*:

JamiesAngel:

jazzo:

Hi Karen, believe me if there was something you'd be one of the first to know

Loved JA's story though -- sounds like triff should change his username to JamiesAngelsAngel

thats really nice of you to say jazzo, but if triff was to see that, he would start to wonder why he is doing all the cooking this week i suppose i shouldnt take him for granted so much, hehehehehe

just say to him, because he's the better cook - feeding with compliments helps sometimes

JamiesAngel:

*Karen*:

JamiesAngel:

jazzo:

Hi Karen, believe me if there was something you'd be one of the first to know

Loved JA's story though -- sounds like triff should change his username to JamiesAngelsAngel

thats really nice of you to say jazzo, but if triff was to see that, he would start to wonder why he is doing all the cooking this week i suppose i shouldnt take him for granted so much, hehehehehe

just say to him, because he's the better cook - feeding with compliments helps sometimes

he is though, i burn everything cos im on here i said i wanted a fancy laptop in the kitchen for christmas, didnt get one though

millan:

ok so I don't really remember much.. before I fell in love with Eric (his name lol) we actually talked to each other.. and so on.... acting like friends haha
and then he´found out somehow and suddenly he wasn't talking to me anymore.. ohh I think he hated me .. I dunno.. weird situation to be in. But this was a long time ago and we've said hello once in a while.. well..
ahh he's cute=) I've actually got a pic of him but won't post it
He's got extremely long eyelashes!!!
CUTE! I say

so the bus thing was a few weeks ago.. I said hello.. he just looked at me for a second then just kept walking back along the bus.. I was kinda dissapointed.. he couldn't act like a civilized guy and say hello back.

dunno what else to say.. it was just a wonderful feeling to be in love for once!

JamiesAngel:

millan:

ok so I don't really remember much.. before I fell in love with Eric (his name lol) we actually talked to each other.. and so on.... acting like friends haha
and then he´found out somehow and suddenly he wasn't talking to me anymore.. ohh I think he hated me .. I dunno.. weird situation to be in. But this was a long time ago and we've said hello once in a while.. well..
ahh he's cute=) I've actually got a pic of him but won't post it
He's got extremely long eyelashes!!!
CUTE! I say

so the bus thing was a few weeks ago.. I said hello.. he just looked at me for a second then just kept walking back along the bus.. I was kinda dissapointed.. he couldn't act like a civilized guy and say hello back.

dunno what else to say.. it was just a wonderful feeling to be in love for once!

i could be wrong, but i cant help but feel that this young man is just very shy and doesnt know what or how to react,

or

someone has said soemthing about you thats not very nice and he is thinking stuff thats not true, either way honey, send one more signal, email, text, phone or be direct, but find out, its not fair you living like this, and yes, being in love is wonderful, it gets better as you get older too

Jordan210:

went all the way to WH smiths to see the girls and she was not working today

Jordan210:

went all the way to WH smiths to see the girls and she was not working today

everlastinglove:

Has he spoken to you properly since that day on the bus?
If not i have a similar experiance to relate, it comes with a few words of
wisdom

JayBoh:

i agree with jordan, i kno he's a sad case but we dont have to keep reminding him

i just read through this thread ...

JA how long have you been married now? i think its really good that he took you and your baggage as i know a lot of men would be put off by that. you're one of the lucky ones i think .

everlastinglove:

If not i have a similar experiance to relate, it comes with a few words of wisdom

everlastinglove:

Jordan210:

went all the way to WH smiths to see the girls and she was not working today

jordan were you after a date or a flirt?

Val:

JA how long have you been married now? i think its really good that he took you and your baggage as i know a lot of men would be put off by that. you're one of the lucky ones i think .[/color]

Val:

everlastinglove:

If not i have a similar experiance to relate, it comes with a few words of wisdom

oh oh you're making me feel like i should get a move on with my love life!

JamiesAngel:

Val:

JA how long have you been married now? i think its really good that he took you and your baggage as i know a lot of men would be put off by that. you're one of the lucky ones i think .

6.5 years, gone really quick, and not only does he have to put up with baggage, but also, an adopted son, who ils making him feel a bit insecure life aint always easy, but it isnt for anyone, so its life, not all roses and midnights, but stable, honest love.......

and thanks

aww thats really sweet. you older people (absolutely no offence!)give hope to the rest of us and for that we thank you

everlastinglove:

about a year and a half ago i went from pimary school to secondary
my close friend, mohammed from the same prim school as me was now in a different form to me so i couldnt talk to him as often
it was while missing him that i realized i fancied him
i confided in my friends
the day before one of my friends changed schools she told him
you can guess ...he didnt fancy me back
he gave my friend the message that he only wanted to be friends
despite that he hasnt spoken to me since
he has given me a friendly smile a couple of times though
coincidentally - this is the same boy who fancied me in prim school

this boy though being outgoing and funny is very shy around girls
i think thats why he hasnt come up and spoken to me infrront of everyone
that could also be the case with you

its a pity im too cowardly to go up and speak to him
i still miss him as a friend

i hate when things turn out like that but as mark said, if you're friend had never told him, you might have been wondering for years.

edit: i hope you have better luck in the future hun (actually i KNOW you will!)

Val:

aww thats really sweet. you older people (absolutely no offence!)give hope to the rest of us and for that we thank you

markmorrisII:

Val:

aww thats really sweet. you older people (absolutely no offence!)give hope to the rest of us and for that we thank you

ageist (if thats even a word)

Val:

JamiesAngel:

Val:

JA how long have you been married now? i think its really good that he took you and your baggage as i know a lot of men would be put off by that. you're one of the lucky ones i think .

6.5 years, gone really quick, and not only does he have to put up with baggage, but also, an adopted son, who ils making him feel a bit insecure life aint always easy, but it isnt for anyone, so its life, not all roses and midnights, but stable, honest love.......

and thanks

aww thats really sweet. you older people (absolutely no offence!)give hope to the rest of us and for that we thank you

Val:

glad i make someone laugh!

millan:

JamiesAngel:

millan:

ok so I don't really remember much.. before I fell in love with Eric (his name lol) we actually talked to each other.. and so on.... acting like friends haha
and then he´found out somehow and suddenly he wasn't talking to me anymore.. ohh I think he hated me .. I dunno.. weird situation to be in. But this was a long time ago and we've said hello once in a while.. well..
ahh he's cute=) I've actually got a pic of him but won't post it
He's got extremely long eyelashes!!!
CUTE! I say

so the bus thing was a few weeks ago.. I said hello.. he just looked at me for a second then just kept walking back along the bus.. I was kinda dissapointed.. he couldn't act like a civilized guy and say hello back.

dunno what else to say.. it was just a wonderful feeling to be in love for once!

i could be wrong, but i cant help but feel that this young man is just very shy and doesnt know what or how to react,

or

someone has said soemthing about you thats not very nice and he is thinking stuff thats not true, either way honey, send one more signal, email, text, phone or be direct, but find out, its not fair you living like this, and yes, being in love is wonderful, it gets better as you get older too

tihi yeah but I mean.. I fell in love with him 3 years ago..
I'm not really "off" by this whole thing.. just crosses my mind now and then =)
yeah but he doens't seem to be like the shhy guy hehe but u never know

and the other thing is possible too lol