aah and for Val, Tracey and Anyz me and Carol know eachother outside the forum

Char, feel free to discuss your romantic worries or sucess here!

Tom, I did think you knew each other but I started having doubts!

Okay, thanks. That's what I figured this thread was for but I thought I better make sure before I started sharing my problems.

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be our guest

Tom, did you ever solve your situation with the girl?

well, me and Tom know each other personally it will be in November one year.
but we are net palls since he registred in this forum...I guess.
(don't meet him he's a terrible person xD - NOT!)

I hope you solve this situation Tom...maybe now you're moving...

we're here for you

Charlie we are your love doctors x)

let us help you

Ahaha thank you so much.

Okay okay..sooo I do have one little problem with one of my guy friends.
He keeps asking me to go out with him but I have no interest whatsoever in him.
But no matter how many times I say no..he just keeps on asking.
He doesn't seem to get it.

Char, hmm this is always a difficult one.

I think you need to sit him down, have a complete serious chat with him and tell him that you want to stay friends and you just don't have feelings for him. It might be best to buffer it with 'i'm sure you'll find the perfect girl for you etc etc'...although maybe that might come across as patronising!

How good a friend is he? If he's not a close friend, maybe just stop as much contact for a little while, it might help.

If he is a good friend, you just need to explain you don't want to ruin your friendship and he needs to acept you'll never be more than friends.

Tell me about it.


That's basically what I've done already. I've told him I'd rather stay friends becuase I don't have feelings for him. He just doesn't seem to get it though! He's always asking me if I like someone else or if I would wanna go to the movies sometime with him. And he's always getting jealous of one of my best friends, who's a guy, because I'm with him a lot. It's just all very frustrating.


He's not a very close friend. I've only known him for a little while and I barely see him. I think that's part of what makes everything so weird, because I barely know him.

Aw Charr... he's still going on and on with this?

Methinks you just gotta give it a try once more - I mean, talk to him once more and if he just doesn't want to understand well... there's always the option to block him on MSN and not reply his texts!

But just do that if he doesn't want to understand anything and he's really bothering...!

Yes, it's gotten quite pathetic now.


Okay so I've told him again that I only like him as a friend and nothing more. I even threw in that the fact he won't give up on this could potentionally ruin our friendship. This is all just frustrating!!

Well I guess we'll see what happens.

Oh well, third time lucky maybe?

I'll keep ma fingers corssed hon!

XXX♥

What did he say this time Char?

If he persists after this time, your only option is to cool the friendship for a while too!

He said he accepts the fact that I only like him as a friend. And I didn't talk to him for a couple of days after that. And he hasn't asked me to go out with him again, but he still asks to hang out a lot.


Yeah, I'm actually thinking about doing that if I'm not successful this time.

But there's still the issue that he gets so jealous easily and I'm not even dating him! I did talk to him about it though. He was accusing me of liking my best friend, Brandon, because Brandon had his arm around my waist before class.
I don't like my best friend, and I told him that he has no right to accuse me of stuff like that because he doesn't own me.

it seems you have the opposite problem from Tom

well, you need to have an honest and direct chat with him...

As I'm just too lazy to go back in this thread, what's your problemo Tom??


That's what I've done. And he seems to get the message now.
But the problems just go on.
I think I like his best friend.

Uh-oh...!! Ya like his best friend now? Now that's a problem!

Does he (this nouisance's best friend I mean) have a gf or has he ever hinted you that you're hawt?

yes..I think you should speak with him ... and make him understand that you don't like him in that way ! if you don't like him in the he does...don't get out with him cause can be worst

Aaah I know. I don't wanna like him, but..I can't help it!! He's so freaking cute!!!
I just seem to attract problems.


He doesn't have a gf, no.
But I flirt with him all the time and it's so odvious I like him!!

Thank you. That's seemed to work for my problemo!!

I'm curious as to what your problem is though!

well, Tom's problem is that the girl he loves don't feel the same thing for him, and she keeps telling him there isn't the 'click', if you know what I mean.

so what you gonna do since you like his best friend?

Oh no!! How long have you known her?? And have you ever dated her??


Oh, if only I knew.
I guess I'll just ignore the fact that I like his friend to avoid hurting anyone?

you're not doing nothing wrong. I suppose you're being honest!

it's not your fault to like his friend...


Tom loves that girl for a couple of years I guess. when we met (2006 I guess) he already talked about her...

carol likes to talk about my life i think

I have dated with her a few times, she tell me that she doesn't envolve with some one that she don't like in that way , she tells me that i'm an excelent boy but we have to be friends etc...
i like her since last year !

Aww. And she knows how you feel about her??

yes she does, now both of go to study in Lisbon..and now she wants to hang out with me. But i want to forget her , and I like her i don't know what to do :\

I sometimes think staying away from someone who doesn't feel the same is probably the best thing in the short time, you need time to get over it.

what? she ssaid she want to hang out with you?
this is all you wanted...I know it's difficult because you always tried and then you always tried to forget her...

hi everyone

Hello Marcia! Everything cool? Hope so. Welcome to this thread where we share our love stories (good or bad experiences about love and else). Be free to reply telling us about your sentimental history.

Have fun!

Gosh dear, you've got a little bit of trouble here. Is she now in Lisbon like you? I guess my advice for you is that you should try to forget her, if you keep pushing this subject with her and she has the same opinion about you it is just a viscious circle with no meaning at all. It would be no good for you.

hey Marcia ....

Someone!!! HELP ME!

Oh ! What's happening ?

I'm stressing really bad! Most of you know that I'm engaged. Well most of you know that I'm getting married this summer. Well... My parents don't want to help with the wedding! I can't do this all on my own. My future mother in law is too busy flying all over the country for her job and now I just found out that when he and I get married we have to do this big ol' process through the Army for me to be filed as a dependent. I'm stressed out beyond belief and its only 4 months away. And now he wants to change the date of our marriage. Gah. =[

Gosh ! How your parents can't help you ?
That's YOUR day, it must be perfect ! Just as you want it to be ! I can't understand their reaction...

They told me its because he's in the Army. They were both at one point in the Army. I just don't get it.